Guest author: Carole C. Edman, SPHR, of HR Manager To Go Consultants.
In her Forbes.com blog post, consultant Adreinne Graham describes the complex issues consultants face when friends, family, potential clients, and business colleagues ask about business issues during informal conversations. These are often requests for professional advice, which we all give at times. Yet we are paid for our expertise and knowledge, which we tailor to specific client projects and situations. Graham’s response is a resounding, “No, You Can’t Pick My Brain. It Costs Too Much!”
Does this sound familiar? Their “…mission is to pick my brain to gather as much free intel and knowledge they need to make their jobs easier.” Graham says, “Not gonna happen, sorry. My brain costs money to maintain. There’s training, classes to attend, reading (I have to buy books), gaining certifications, costs of memberships so I can network, attending conferences and mastering my skills that all cost me money.”
Physicians hate to be cornered at cocktail parties or family dinners! We understand that doctors, at a minimum, need to review patient history to give proper medical advice. In HR, employees often ask about a personal issue or want to talk off-the-record, but we can't violate client policies. Even though we may want to help, we can't.
Every professional must decide what is appropriate and when to give free advice without the proper context and without payment. Prospective clients sometimes push the boundaries, too, by:
- Picking the consultants brain as a test of knowledge, like taking a new car on a long test drive.
- Spending too much time discussing details before approving a consulting agreement.
- Asking for lengthy proposals that explain exactly how the client's problem would be solved.
Assessments require an up-front consulting agreement and fees, with confidentiality terms to protect both parties. Otherwise, the proposal can be shopped around for a better price, leaving the consultant uncompensated for a good faith effort.
It isn't easy to say no, but establishing clarity at the first contact makes navigating tricky issues much simpler.
© 2011 Carole Edman & Associates
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